The sex education I wished I had in high school.

In the early 80's when I was in was a high school sophomore, I had already had a few sexual encounters with girls. In fact, I was 13 the first time I had sex. Long story for another time. When it came time to take health education, we all knew that the topic of sex was on the syllabus. Luck for me, the class was being taught by my JV baseball coach, who had a simple and no scientific way of getting us to understand sex. After all he was a baseball player at first, and educator second. He had a masters in KPE, and a second BA in History. Nice guy at heart. When it came time to talk about sex, he told us that the information he was going to present to us was no way a license to have sex.......sorry coach, I just got laid before 3rd period. There was a girl in our class, who at the time was dating a rock musician from a band here in L.A. She went from class geek in Jr. High to the class tramp in High School over night. She would come to class dressed in tight leather skirts, cut-off shirts, lacey bras, and(what drove me wild) garters and stockings. SHE WAS 15! AND SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING TO ALL THE GUYS IN SCHOOL. I don't think any of us walked with out our pee-chee folders in front of our 501's, hiding our hard on's.

A few months ago, I went to pick up some more lube at the adult store in town and came across a series of DVD's. All with different "HOW TO" or "GUIDE TO" in the title. I read the cover and figured what do I have to lose but a few bucks. There's bound to be some useful information on this thing? Besides I know that they have to show you how it works, in a practical matter; meaning some hot porn! So I purchased the lube and the DVD "HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMEN" Well shit-fire, I think I would know how to do that, I know how to work the machinery, I'm in the union! I took it home to preview it before my love came home, in hopes that there would be some useful information she would get from this. Boy, this was the best thing I have bought from that shop so far. I viewed it, listen and learn quiet a few things from it. One, I had to pay more attention to her. Not just to what she was saying, but how her body was reacting, how her hips where moving. I learned that in order to make her cum, she needs to know that she is safe and secure with me. How do you ensure that, by letting her relax and trust you and touch her. Not to jump into the fun house, but to be invited in. Just because it says "Free admittance when wet" doesn't mean that the house is ready for the General Jim and the twins.

We viewed it later that week, when "our daughter" was out, and told her that this was not just a porn, but it was something that would help her, as well as us, in communicating our desires to each other. SHE LOVED IT! SHE LOVED IT! SHE FUCKING LOVED IT! She loved it so much, that we never finished the DVD. The part that did her in was where Nina is talking about how women love to have their pussy lips rubbed. Just rubbed. That's all, just rubbed. And that if you work them in the right direction, you can use her lips to rub her clit in way that will make her wet in no time. THAT SHIT WORKS! She was ready to go and so was I and bam, the General and his troops took hold of that mound and made her cum a good-hard three times. We still haven't finished the DVD, but have used most of the information on there to enhance our sex lives. I did manage to go back and buy another DVD, this one call "Nina guide to multiple Orgasms" Again, more information on how to make her relax, where to focus your attention, but geared more toward the women in the home viewing arena. She loves this one to, and is learning to take control of her orgasms and when to let them go. Letting them build up and savor them. I wish the coach would have played these in class.